Since I always see a correlation (not linear connection) between people who are particularly successful with women and people who are successful in general, I really wanted to share with you guys several lessons about life that the “Game”, namely the art of picking up women, has taught me over the last 3 years.
Let’s start:
#1) Confidence trumps knowledge
First I want to state that both are extremely important and have a significant place in a successful man’s world, of course. But when it comes to real-life experience, being knowledgeable and well educated is less important than being a confident fearless man. Let’s take two people: Nick and Danny.
Nick has an extraordinary sense of humor, he has charm, knows how to lead people, quickly adjusts to new environments and is highly confident. At the same time, he is not well-educated in the formal sense, he probably did not attend college, all he got is street smart.
On the other hand, you got Danny, who is a complete computer-science nerd, he is a genius and has a remarkable talent in coding, however, lack the social skills Nick has and can’t even make an eye-contact, unless with a pair of eyes displayed on his monitor. He’s a virgin also.
Who do you think will be more successful in life?
Who is going to make more pussies wet and more deals closed?
Who is going to live a more fulfilling life?
#2) It’s not all about words
When dealing with women, it is clear to notice that your words are nearly meaningless without taking into consideration further factors, such as the tone, body language movements (facial expressions included) and the context of the words.
Women are not receptive to words that are not alive. If you have something to say and you say it with soulless eyes and broke tone you better off shut your mouth.
In order to keep her emotionally engaged, you better improve your tone and a body language that is more wide open will not hurt your chances also, I promise.
In life, as with women, it doesn’t matter what you say, but how you actually say it. Don’t get me wrong, I am just saying your mouth should be kept under control not that words shouldn’t leave your mouth at all. Be expressive, not shy. Don’t be afraid to show up and be heard. It is better to be little too loud than to be too quiet.
In fact, words do have a significant role in conveying a message. Words do matter more than 7% of communication- this is a known myth.
You should demonstrate confidence and be able to communicate controlling both nonverbals and verbals like Nick from above.
#3) Shy is invisible
Women cannot observe shy people in social interactions. They just can’t, it’s like shy boys are out of their radar or something. He who hesitates masturbates. Don’t be afraid to expose your inner self publicly. Be prominent and dominant. If you want people to respect you, don’t be speechless all the time. Sure, you don’t have to speak all day, which is the complete and utter opposite, speaking too much is a trait related to women not men. Don’t over speak, but if you have something clever to share with those around you, be sure to state it without hesitations.
#4) Leadership
I think this one is pretty self-explanatory. Interacting with women has forced me to take the lead. As a man, you possess the ability to be a great leader. Now obviously not every male is a leader, how could that be possible? You can either embrace your very nature and be an alpha lion, or you can be a sheep among other sheep. It’s up to you which path to choose. But always remember – leadership is something you develop, not born with.
#5) The best has no competition
Since I became more masculine and more confident, I have started to pay attention to the little things. I have noticed that in any given environment, regardless of the situation, women will be drawn to the one who is most Alpha. Damn even if she is next to her boyfriend Danny – when Alpha Nick comes over she becomes more receptive towards Nick, completely out of her control. Means it’s an ingrained instinct in her.
In life, not unlike with women, when you are unquestionably number one, you don’t have to worry about other competitors. You are easily outweighing them simply by being yourself, there is no actual rivalry. At the top, there are fewer obstacles in your way and you simply get used to receiving all the spotlight.
So my unique recommendation for you is to be, live and remain the best.
#6) You will never be satisfied
This is a sad one. When deep down in a long-term relationship, you will find yourself striving for a bachelor lifestyle, sexually frustrated from lack of variety. Yet when banging new random fresh chicks all day and all night, the only thing that you want is a real, deep, meaningful connection with one person. You always want what you haven’t got or can’t have.
This sad truth attacked me soon after I nearly committed to a cute girl which after her I chased a little time. She was my dream girl, even though she wasn’t perfect, her traits definitely met my standards. We had sex finally, I felt like a king for a second, even a minute, a couple of hours. You might think “Ok, and then? A day later, two days later?” – nothing special. I was the same Gal, not to mention she didn’t even answer my post-sex text messages (Lol). Then I came to an understanding that for me to be satisfied, even sleeping with Megan Fox won’t do the work.
Until next time,
Gal.
